Starting in March 2025 Sweden

  • Buster Rådvik

  • Mara Kölpin

  • Triambaka Vive

  • Susanne Roursgaard

“the relational education you wish you had and always needed…”

A Full-Spectrum Relational Journey Through Embodiment, Intimacy and Community.

Meet your deepest longing to connect, relate and come alive, while integrating relational trauma and rebuilding your core capacities to co-create fulfilling relationships.

  • Evolve beyond your survival based adaptive patterns of relating and embody an evolutionary co-creative intimacy that heals

  • Connect with your voice as a tool of embodiment that can guide you back into your body

  • Tap into your bodies relational intelligence to experience it as an ally and guide

  • End the “war within” between the welcome and unwelcome aspects of yourself to deepen your capacity for embodied self love.

  • Transform what prevents you from living your heart's desire in a community based, holistic and trauma integrating, experiential education. 

  • Immerse yourself in the deeply healing experience of singing in community, which has been practiced in ancient tribes and cultures for millennia

  • Step into your authentic leadership by relationally alchemising what holds you back from being fully expressed as a creative being

  • Increase your relational resilience and capacity for embodying secure attachment through new ways of relating 

  • Dare to step into your vocal freedom, embracing the raw, authentic, unfiltered expression of who you are

  • Get skilled in regulating your nervous system and relate with others in an alive community formation 

  • Welcome the aliveness of your erotic innocence 

  • Explore the voice as a key tool of connection, community bonding and re-awakening self expression. 

  • Experience how your relational trauma is a gift that makes collective healing possible

“I have been dreaming about something like this all my life…”

Come Home to Love, Eros & Your Body 

We all carry a collective trauma. We fumble in relationship, we struggle with loneliness. We’re cut off from our bodies, their juices and smells and animal desires. We manipulate our sexual partners for external validation. We try to mimic porn sex. Men are men because they get laid. Women are women because they are desired. Happiness is rarely lasting.

Would you like to experience a different kind of world?

A world where we could slow down enough to feel safe in every cell of our body... where we could put our conditioning on hold... where we can allow our senses to open and guide the way. 

What if we could build a new culture together — based on trust that comes from speaking the truth?

What if we could bridge that painful gap between who we think we are in our minds – and who we experience ourselves to be through our bodies and hearts?

This world is here now. This is your invitation.

Together, in community, we will live in this new world. We will explore how to cultivate a loving, erotic embodiment in which all of us is included, even the parts that feel scary, amazing, too little or too much.

We will explore how we can relate in new ways and heal one another, unlock our organism’s innate ability to integrate and embrace all our contradictions. Come home, through your body, to one united whole. 

In this community we will cultivate trust, solidarity and mutual support. We will move from experiencing ourselves as isolated, messed up individuals, to stand together in the devastating collective and historical trauma we have inherited. This cultural wound has left us in fear of and at war with love and eros. These sacred energies that created us and are the essence of our joy. This wound lives in every fibre of our nervous system, as a terror of not being worthy of love and a deep mistrust of each other. We come to fear the very essence of what it means to be human. We fear intimacy.

We can't heal these relational traumas alone.

But we can engage in simple and truthful ways of being together, by quieting down the regular, superficial chitchat of social interaction. We can enter into a profound transformational intimacy with one another. Come to a present, attuned, shared reality - breath by breath, sound by sound, movement by movement, touch by touch.

This is your future.

Are you ready to jump aboard this life-changing journey?

Journey Home to Your Voice

As children and infants, most of us had an innate freedom in our vocal expression. An innocent, carefree attitude; humming as we played, crying out in emotion, copying the sounds and words that surrounded us. 

Most of us have lost touch with this innocence and wisdom. It has been conditioned out of us. The world regularly telling us that we are “too loud” or “taking up too much space”.

We find ourselves in adulthood, not freely expressing ourselves anymore. Instead, adapting to what we think is expected of us.

Singing in community is a deeply healing experience. It has been practiced in ancient tribes and cultures for millennia.

In The Intimacy Training, we will use the voice as a key tool of connection, community bonding and re-awakening self expression. 

Through breath, movement and rhythm we will guide you to (re)-discover the instrument of your own voice. To connect with your voice as a tool of embodiment that can guide you back into your body… Descending into it… then, experiencing your voice rise up through it.

The voice is regulating. Soothing. Softening. Opening us into a collective resonance.

Get ready to explore and celebrate your individual voice as well as the group harmony.

In The Intimacy Training, we will play with both deep listening and hearing one another, as well as inviting individual expression and vocal freedom.

2025 Sweden Training Dates

The training is a 7-month journey containing 4 x 1-week residential modules with additional weekly online integration groups and online facilitator training group.

Module One: 24 to 30 March
Bonding as a Community

Module Two: 2 to 8 of June
From Trauma to Personal Power

Module Three: 11 to 17 August
The Erotic Animal Hiding in the Shadows

Module Four: 13 to 19 October
Integration and Celebration

More detailed info on the module contents below.

There is an Optional Facilitator Track for up to 4 professionals/facilitators already working in the field. Let us know in the application if you are interested and would like to apply and we will let you know more about the requirements for this parallel program.

“I feel much more deeply surrendered to the truth of my experience, without any impulse to bypass it...”

“As I feel into how I experience myself leaving here, I feel much more deeply attuned to the truth of my experience and much more deeply surrendered to the truth of my experience without any impulse to bypass it. I felt so much more deeply in my spine, in my root, I could feel the base of my spine, I feel it here on a level which I s deep for me. I feel super excited that we are going to do this over a year, that is such a special gift - I have never experienced anything like that with a group of people. Who knows where we are going to go? And as I said to you guys, what you are holding is really special, really really special. It is such a gift to humanity...”

Jonas

The 4 Modules – An Overview

Module One –

Bonding as a Community

Module one is all about building a strong sense of safety and trust in the community. This happens when our wholehearted, authentic sharing is received and mirrored by others in ways that allows us to feel truly seen, known, heard and accepted. 

We will also be cultivating this safety and trust by awakening our voices. Using vocal practices to regulate our individual bodies and coregulate the community body - unifying our voices into collective resonance. When we lay down this foundational trust and build this safer space together, radical healing becomes not only possible… it becomes irresistible!

Module Two –

From Trauma to Personal Power

In Module Two we step forward into our personal power, creativity and aliveness. As we start bringing awareness to our triggered emotions and relational traumas, we'll learn how to regulate our nervous system. We are coming together to face what we can’t face alone. To start making peace with our bodies and the frozen, fragmented and dissociated parts of us that we’ve been fighting, trying to fix and too afraid to feel. 

Susanne Roursgaard will join the facilitation team for module two. She will bring over 30 years of work experience with her evolved Sexual Somatic Body therapy now called The Gaia method.

Module Three –

The Erotic Animal Hiding in the Shadows

In Module Three, we learn to share clear feedback with each other, reclaim our projections, roar from our hearts, wrestle and cuddle with each other, and rewrite old stories with new ones - ones where we can be truly ourselves, in all our power and fullness, and truly bonded with others at the same time. From this point we can begin to know a sexuality that is genuinely grounded and integrated with the core of who we are. We do this knowing that despite (and maybe even thanks to) our edges and shadows, we are lovable, we are welcome, and we belong. We feel the relief of not needing to live from a defended place, expecting the worst to happen, again. We learn to rest in a presence that holds all the good, all the bad, as one who has enough heart and belly for both the light and the shadow. Triambaka Vive will join the facilitation team for module three. The tools, knowledge and practices she shares will help you look at your relationship with yourself as a sexual being, support you in embodying your authentic sexual expression and forming fulfilling relationships.

Module Four –

Integration and Celebration

In this final phase of our journey together, we flow, dance and play in the field of love the community has created. We nakedly expose our raw and powerful hearts. We activate the erotic force in all its soulfulness and animal wildness – and explore what it means to heal, transform and empower ourselves and each other into a totally new experience of being alive. In Module Four, the participants add new flavours to the group harvest through sharing their gifts and offerings with the community. The community enters the mystery of co-creation through a fluid leadership and a more improvised structure. We play with dissolving the boundaries between leading and following. Each individual learns to stand in the power of their wholeness, the unique beauty of their brokenness, and their erotic force and aliveness. Together we learn how these are gifts, for each of us and all of us. We come to feel what it means to stand together as an integrated community of unique, empowered individuals, each plugged into the source of their own inspiration to contribute to the whole – in wisdom, pleasure, rawness, creativity, and celebration.

Pricing

For individuals: €4999

Price includes the course fee, vegetarian meals and accommodations in a shared dorm.

A non-refundable deposit of €500 is required to reserve a place.

Please discuss payment options at your interview.

For companies & organisations add 25% VAT

Price includes the course fee, vegetarian meals and double room accommodations. (limited single room available for extra fee)

A non-refundable deposit of €500 is required to reserve a place.

Please discuss payment options at your interview.

The Facilitator Team

  • Buster Radvik, MA

    Buster is a champion of full self-expression and leading with integrity. He wears his heart on his sleeve and has a reputation for pleasantly shocking an entire room with his candid emotional awareness and ability to reveal himself transparently, no matter how awkward and messy it might look. His warm, open style gives permission for people to come home to their humanity, embodied in an ecstatic atmosphere of vulnerability and presence. He gently guides participants into the wisdom of the body and its innate drive to heal, develop new capacities and adapt. If you want to learn about radical honesty, voice-shaking authenticity, and full-spectrum emotional expression, Buster is a great guide.

    Buster is the founder of Path of Relating and of The Intimacy Training, (formerly the Embodied Intimacy Training). He is a Certified Sensorimotor Psychotherapist in private practice. He specializes in therapy for trauma and attachment related issues around intimacy, sex and relationship.

    At his core, he believes that the body is the pathway to liberation… and beyond that, to love.

  • Mara Kölpin

    Mara holds a deep care and fascination for the human psyche and the way human beings relate and communicate with each other. With her spiritual background of Universal Sufism, from an early age she has been in touch with honouring the Oneness of all spiritual traditions.

    Mara holds a deep dedication to creating spaces of sacredness and connection, as well as a passion for the empowerment of women and working with the collective feminine themes. Through music, voice work and embodiment she now carries these elements into the world, hosting conscious workshops and events.

    Mara is a Psychologist, Musician, and Workshop Facilitator based in Berlin. With an M.Sc. in Clinical Psychology and Empowerment, she is on the path to becoming a certified couple's and family systems psychotherapist.

    As a Singer-Songwriter and Musician, she is also currently working on her second Album. www.mara-music.com

  • Susanne Roursgaard

    Susanne Roursgaard

    Susanne is devoted to helping her clients heal and release trauma – to experience safety, freedom, love and compassion; to challenge and create boundaries; to come home to oneself. She has an incredibly diverse educational background, which she brings to her equally varied offerings as a healer and therapist.

    From her work as a psychotherapist and body-oriented trauma therapist, to her medical background as a midwife for more than two decades, Susanne is a deep well of knowledge and experience-based wisdom.

    With her passion for working holistically with the body, mind and spirit, Susanne is the creator and founder of The Gaia Method, a body-oriented modality developed over 30 years of practice in experimental bodywork therapy. Visit Susanne’s website to learn more: https://www.the-gaia-method.com/

    “Our deeper aim is to help you connect to your essence. To consciously be able to create in life, manifest and express yourself.”

  • Triambaka Vive

    Triambaka’s path has taken her on a long, pioneering journey that has ultimately led her to become one of today’s leading voices in a new era of awakened sexual consciousness. From tantric pilgrimages through the ashrams of India, to shamanic ceremonies in the jungles of South America, she has dedicated her life to cultivating the capacity to serve as a transformational catalyst and guide for awakening, healing, sexual empowerment, and wholeness.

    Triambaka’s work has brought her to global stages, exclusive destination resorts, and on to Playboy television as a sex and relationship expert. She is a lead facilitator and co-founding member of ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts, offering paramount trainings for sexual healing practitioners throughout Europe, North & South America, Middle East, and Australia.

    Having worked with thousands of students and clients all around the world, she is incredibly grateful to have the privilege of supporting men, women, and couples to expand into their fullest, joyful expression of sexuality, intimacy, and life.

    Visit Triambaka’s Website: https://www.triambikamavive.com/about

Past Guest Facilitators

“I am super amazed and so grateful for this experience and for you guys bringing this out and making it possible for me and us to find it. For me this is a dream come true. And if you ever make a living community, you can count me in. I want to live like this! I don’t want to live in any other way because this is real. yeah. And I Love the way you lead with transparency and vulnerability and its just whhhaaa, I feel like this jellyfish, I am soft and floating, I am so safe and comfortable and I have so much love for all of you. Its like this unconditional love we have and there is nothing we can do that will make it less. No matter how fucked up you are, there will always be more!”

- Tori

“There is not a single part that I brought here that has left, but there is no judgement towards them anymore.”

New Venue

Bjornbacka Retreat Center

Ensta, 40 minutes south of Stockholm, Sweden

(nearest airport: Arlanda, Stockholm)

New state of the arts luxurious retreat center situated in one of the most beautiful countrysides Sweden has to offer.

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“I am in complete peacefulness right now, there is not a single part that I brought here that has left, but there is no judgement towards them anymore. I still have all these instincts, reactions, patterns but this attachment to the idea of getting rid of them somewhere with some practice or teacher, with some magic, some medicine, drug, it’s just gone. They will always be there and now there is this new relationship forming to them to start to honor them and curiously witness them whenever they come to presence, and that it's just mind-blowingly beautiful. This idea that I can find some place in the world that can heal me somehow is gone. Now, it's just like cool, lets witness this theater, until it's gone. And all of you are so fuckign deep in my heart - I have no words for you (Buster & Rachel) I know you see it pouring out of me but I am so grateful. Thank you guys.”

- Lea