2 to 8 of June 2025
Module Two:
From Trauma to Personal Power
Key Focus Points:
Discover who you are in your wholeness.
Learn healing ways of relating.
Befriend, trust and come alive with your instincts.
Integrate parts of you that have not been met and been safe to embody.
Rebuild an internally secure sense of self and an increased relational resilience
Uncover and transform outdated unconscious patterns of protection that have been running your life and affecting your present day relationships, emotions and behavior.
Learn how to regulate your triggered nervous system and move towards connection.
Awaken your capacity to love beyond fear and shame.
Experience relating as a dance, free from fear, lies and conflict.
Experience an integrated and grounded sense of wholeness.
Learn that your shadows and personal problems do not need to be fixed, but are the food for genuine connection.
Feel powerful when you are vulnerably seen as you actually are.
Embody more self-love and self-acceptance.
Come to terms with apparent contradictions in yourself: the destroyer and the creator, the victim and perpetrator.
A Holistic Picture
In Module One, we built a strong container of presence, attunement, and embodied intimacy. We increased our somatic sense of safety in connection to others and the community. We learnt to listen to our bodies, share from our direct experience and take risks to be vulnerable and together create a field of permission in which we begin to trust and bond with each other. In the second Module, we will use those shared maps and methods to invite in and face the relational traumas that we can’t face alone.
We continue the journey by starting to make peace with our bodies and the frozen, fragmented and dissociated parts of us that we’ve been fighting, trying to fix and too afraid to feel. As we are bringing awareness to our triggered emotions and relational traumas we'll learn how to regulate our traumatized nervous systems and increase our capacity to integrate more and more parts of us.
In order to create the love we truly desire, we must first undo the grip of unconscious fear. What comes up when we feel triggered, threatened, exposed beyond our comfort zone, or vulnerable beyond our ability to hold ourselves?
We slam on the brakes.
Our nervous systems ignite, activate and propel us involuntarily - often frighteningly - into instinctual, animal, primal responses, designed to defend us and keep us safe from possible threat. Perhaps, under the surface, we have the impulse to fight, flee, freeze, cry out or collapse, or some combination of these. All of these defences have something in common. While they may keep us alive, our sense of self intact, and protect our position, they also take us out of connection with others. When ruled by these instinctual responses in our daily lives, we find ourselves alone, isolated, disconnected and afraid.
These automatic reactions cannot be unlocked alone. They were formed in relation with other people: parents, siblings, playmates, girlfriends, boyfriends, partners, lovers, trusted adults, authority figures, perhaps even enemies or abusers.
To unlock these traumas, large and small, we must reveal them to other human beings, and heal them in new patterns of relating. Here we can develop our capacity to relate with and harness the wild and raw power of our defensive instincts. We will learn to connect, safely embody and relate with these instincts. We develop our capacity to possess and harness the power of them; our primordial life force. Fear is turned to courage… the courage to love as we desire, to create the sacred life we wish to live.
In this module, we will lead from our embodied capacity and lean towards what we want through our transparent vulnerability. We invite our relational traumas to be brought into the community to be witnessed and met in presence and love. We learn to connect, safely embody and relate with these old ways of being protected. While being held, felt and met in our vulnerability in a present, attuned and relational community, the parts of us that have been frozen in time, slowly begin to melt. These conscious embodied encounters rewire our negative and outdated views of ourselves and the world through the attuned presence in each interaction. We learn that our power rests in our vulnerability, our capacity to trust and surrender to the now, to be real, raw and authentic in connection with others. Now the energy that was unconsciously used for protection becomes available for connection, aliveness and creativity. Each conscious embodied encounter rewires our sense of self with the possibilities of the present.
Trauma is stored, and healed, in the body. It’s not enough to talk about it, or do emotional processes around it. To really get to the core of it, we must become vulnerable again, in a place beyond words, and move into pure embodied experience. This can only happen in a safe container we can trust. Sometimes that safe container is with a lover or a trusted therapist. But the greatest transformation and deepest healing, seems to happen mirrored in a group. More often than not, our personal trauma is our collective trauma.
In this process each individual is also invited to claim their power back. With the group committed to each person’s healing and liberation, now there is the opportunity to learn to stand on the foundation of one’s own inner strength. The bonds of the group remain, but move into the background as each individual develops their capacity to stand alone, connected to one’s own sense of safety, clear boundaries, authentic yes and no, and the strength of our essence. From here, a whole new experience of community can emerge from the woven tapestry of each individual’s offered wholeness, power and passion.
We are held within the community and we stand strong on our own two feet. This is the interdependent balance that real love requires: I am my own solid person and I can also merge into joyful oneness with you.
Susanne Roursgaard will be joining the facilitation team for module two. She will bring over 30 years of work experience with her evolved Sexual Somatic Body therapy now called: The Gaia method. The method consists of a variety of tools including de-armouring, touch-focused techniques, soft de-armouring, energy work, breath, sound and psychotherapy. The intention with her work is integrating body, mind and soul, creating a holistic way of working.
Additional Practices:
Trauma Healing Practices (Drawing from our experience of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Embodied Intimacy, David Cates, TRE, Body Work, Yin based approach to De-armoring, Contact Improvisation
Affect Regulation Practices (Drawing from our experience of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy)
Part work (Drawing from our experience of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Theatre Improvisation, Humaniversity Therapy)
Erotic and Sexual Healing Practices (Drawing from our experience of David Cates, Body Work, Yin based approach to Dearmoring, Rebirthing, Tantra,)
Community Building Practices (Drawing from our experience of Sharing Circle, Zegg Forum, Humaniversity Social Meditation, Authentic Relating, Cuddle and Play Structures)
Theoretical Context:
Drawing from our experience of Interpersonal Neurobiology, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Trauma Theory, Affect Regulation, Structural Dissociation Theory, Tamera Healing Biotope Philosophy, Sacred Sexuality